Open the gates. Let the floods overflow.
Submerge the forbidden city.
Let it surround the dead with crystal light,
Until the only thing that remains is freedom.
Freedom of fear.
Fear conquered me, and I gave in to its unbending will.
A prisoner, shackled and brought to my knees, I submitted.
When did I grow so afraid? I can’t seem to remember.
Self-inflicted amnesia, a steady form of repression, forcing everything into the deepest corners of my conscience.
I am conscious of my inadvertence, of course, though convinced that this was the only path to safety.
Marching to the gallows, head on, blindly hoping that the steps ahead would bring me to a Haven of my own creation.
Yet, here I sit lifelessly, actively choosing not to choose, convinced that any decision would only mean more to lose.
Simplicity should have meant finding the way with the least amount of conflict, but no life is fully devoid of its hardships.
Visions of the barren walls that surround me, as I wonder whether the wall shedding layer after layer is more empty than me.
Decay growing deep within the walls shook the bricks, and I can’t help but wonder if this plague exists in my skin, even if I can’t see.
The truth is there is no shelter.
The truth is I must have known it all along.
Erasing my existence, allowing myself to blend into the dull walls, and fade into nothingness.
Choking my voice, forgiving myself for drowning all sound within the hollow silence of this emptiness.
There is no safety here. There is no peace.
A war rages on within the words unspoken. I know because I felt them. Resounding through the air at alarming pace. Racing back and forth, gaining momentum, as though this hidden dimension hushed secrets try to pierce.
I cannot keep them here any longer. They yearn to explode like fireworks through the night sky. They yearn to break through the heavens, to be heard screaming as they burst into light.
To proclaim their existence; their desire to survive.
To denounce their truths; their stories of strife.
Stories are meant to be told, but without a medium how can they unfold? It’s time to speak and no longer withhold. By what right have I been allowed to bring an end to their soul?
So open the gates. Let the floods overflow.
Submerge the forbidden city.
Let it surround the dead with crystal light,
Until the only thing that remains is freedom.
Freedom of fear.
The train suddenly came to a screeching halt. I wasn’t ready for it. I missed the fraction of a second I was given to brace for impact. How could I have prepared for something I didn’t see coming? Rather, how could I have prepared for something I refused to see coming? The engine that once ran with so much passion and certainty suddenly died out. A journey bursting with endless promise and destiny once, now only felt like an empty carriage filled with baggage that nobody wanted to claim. What of the rest of my fellow travelers? They’d all fled, each attempting to save their own soul. That same future that so lovingly invited my hopes now rejected my very essence. My perspective shifted as I became an intruder in that vision. As I peered out the cracked window, a sullen desert void of life was all that was left. I was abandoned here, alone, to find my way out.
As I simultaneously experienced the loss of a dream, and the loss of a job to support me in the pursuit of that dream, the only thing left to do was face the person I had become in the aftermath of it all. When the ground that stood solidly beneath my feet turned to quicksand, there I was, right in the middle of it, slowly sinking as the facets of my personality slowly fell away. The more I struggled against it, the faster I sunk. I watched as all the layers of my being came undone, viciously stripped away, allowing no room for escape. At the end of it all, I felt empty, I felt lost, and I felt afraid. Truthfully, I still do.
The shattered mirror in front of me reflects someone though I can no longer recognize who that person is. The convictions I once held, the ideas and aspirations I once believed in so blindly no longer felt real. Nothing felt tangible. I could no longer relate to the person that stood before me. Sure, he resembled me in form, but the abyss that existed within revealed more than I was able to deny. My forms of therapy finally caved in, proving too heavy for a weakened spirit to carry any longer. The love I felt for music now represented my greatest source of pain and fear. I had cast it aside like a leper, afraid to let it come close to me again. My desire to write had succumbed to a belief that I no longer had anything of worth to say, successfully trading in my pen for anxiety. The only thing I could do was try and pick up the pieces of glass at my feet.
The world continued to move forward, as it always would, with or without me. Like a painting in a museum, I stared at it. I waited, hoped, begged it enviously to make me feel something again, and yet it did not answer. Frustration grew steadily in my mind when I no longer felt part of the world. Like a bystander, I idly watched life happen, hoping it would bring me an answer. My self-confidence had descended into purgatory, taking with it my self-worth. I was a failure. How could I possibly help anyone else, as I had done so countless times in the past, when I was completely unable to help myself now? In my dormant anger, I isolated myself from those around me, driven purely by the desire to spare them the burden of carrying my grief. My anger was purely directed at myself for being so helpless, but I wasn’t worth enough to let others help me in my dilemma. Somewhere, in the deepest corners of my being, I knew none of this was true. I just couldn’t bring myself to accept it.
Despite my hardships, my loved ones still extended their hands towards me. Their words reassured me that I wasn’t useless. They sang praises for the things I had done, and the obstacles I had overcome. Again, a part of me knew they were right, but to this newer version of myself these words felt like drops falling onto a window. Though they may have struck the surface, they couldn’t break through to reach the inner walls. Instead, the droplets slowly slithered down until they eventually evaporated into nothingness. The shell I created for protection imprisoned me, refusing me the right to leave.
Am I trapped here forever?
I guess I’m really the only person that can answer that question.
I forget that I’m allowed not to have all the answers. I’m not actually supposed to have everything figured out. Learning not to be so hard on myself, and be accepting of my own mistakes is hard. Understanding what I need and how to receive it. When your life has completely been turned upside down, I imagine it’s similar to learning to walk for the first time. All you can do is take small steps while holding on for support. Sooner or later, there will come a day when I am strong enough to walk on my own again.
The truth is, while I may feel like I am alone, I am very far from it. Those around me may not completely understand the way I feel (hell, even I struggle to explain it to myself) but they are certainly there when I need them to be. That’s more than anyone should ever be able to ask for. My life may not be perfect, but I am lucky. Lucky to have made it this far. Lucky to have survived and still be on my feet. Lucky to still be loved and appreciated, even when I’m not at my best. Lucky not having to live with expectation to be perfect. Lucky.
Just lucky, really.
For all my attempts at convincing myself that I am empty, I know now that’s not true. A fire still burns inside, somewhere. I still feel frustration at not being able to fully overcome this part of my life, yet. I still feel confused at not being able to give myself a direction to follow. I still feel. It doesn’t matter what I feel. Only that I am capable of feeling in the first place. That desire to feel anything at all is a clear sign that there’s still something here worth saving. Something worth fighting for. I’m not done. Not yet. I’m alive. Very alive.
When one chapter in life comes to an end, another automatically begins. Sometimes, we’re fortunate enough to be the ones to make that choice. Sometimes, we’re not. Either way, my decisions had a part to play in where I am and where I end up. I have a decision to make right now in where I want to go. Right now.
Deep breaths.
I don’t know where I’m going. But I’ve been through enough to know that I will get to where I need to be. I’ve just got to keep moving forward, no matter what.
As I open my eyes, I wake to a warm, blinding light gently soothing me in its comforting touch. Head pushed towards the sheet of glass between us, I admire the scorching sun as it reveals a world filled with life beneath it. The wheels of the train chugged effortlessly over the rails, as though a cloud drifting through the skies. I must have fallen asleep. It must have all just been a bad dream.
I don’t know where I’m going, but I definitely can’t wait for the day this all just feels like a forgotten dream. And it will, someday. I really believe that. For now, at least I’m writing again, so I can’t be completely lost. I’ve just got to find out where I left the other parts that made me, “Me”.
And I will, someday. I really believe that.
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